Conditional Acceptance!

A full acceptance of the present moment is the gateway to freedom. As long as we are attached to being a self, however, a lot of life energy is expended on actions driven by a motive or expected outcome. The primary motive is to make the self happier and better adjusted. And, the expected outcome is filtered through what should be, should have happened, or what should happen. Please notice how much of your attention is focused on conditional acceptance. How many times every day does the word or energy of should arise? Risk feeling fulfilled without qualifications!

1) What do I mean by the above statement? How can you apply this quote to your life?

2) How does this statement about Conditional Acceptance! apply to, or change the essence of "your life"? How is it significant?

(Please sit with this for a while. Surrender to the energy evoked by the statement and resist looking for the answers. Please do not post a theoretical spiritual response)

How does this quote apply to your every day living experience.
Please resist the urge to entertain theories about this quote – what is
the direct experience of what I am inviting you to explore!