Not taking things personally is so difficult; particularly here in the "Dream of the Planet." The reward for avoiding that "hole in the sidewalk" is unimaginable, particularly for a personalized sense of self.
14 responses to “Not Taking Things Personally!”
I can be surrounded by others and feel alone or feel oneness. I can be alone and feel alone or feel oneness. It is my perception or misperception that makes the difference. In my experience, in awareness there are no others, there is only oneness. I have also learned that I am at one even with those that are in the illusion of separation. This is the part that is harder for me to remember, the part where my illusion of separation seems real.
Carol, that is my experience as well. This being said, I find it easier with some than with others.
I’ve noticed that when I am able to drop my sense of importance I am able to be fully present for others. I’m much more able to listen and understand where someone else is coming from. And especially more able to see someone from a fresh point of view.
For me, there is a direct connection between taking things personally and self-importance. Both temporarily overshadow the intimate nature of Self.
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